obligation

I JUST DONT GET IT. and i do not know what to do. but i thank God for a relationship that was not so tumultuous - and wonder if the blessing was given in order to help those who haven't been so blessed. but how to gently say 'he's just not that into you' or 'he's the worst thing that has ever happened to you'? God, how? But God, you know that if you put the words in my mouth, it would only take a teaspoon more courage from you to say them. Maybe no extra help at all... my tongue is so sick of being bit; I'm more than ready to speak the truth. Just give me the compassion and gentle nature, because I'm ready to scream.